Just so you know, i don't actually grief, in fact, i've almost been murdered by SDC myself, the difference is that i am unfazed by it completely.
The matter here is the ToS, it's really quite simple, Open has no rules on how to play, but combat logging is officially forbidden.
If you want me to ''live'' with the way you think of griefers and keep this divisiveness alive, you'll find that i'll keep supporting them murdering and murdering away on your kind in open happily for as long as they like, since the punishment system is laughably lenient.
This is not a solution, the solution is active punishment of combat logging, far harsher in-game mechanics against griefers to discourage them from attacking traders that do not want it. But right now something is being violated, the ToS has to be enforced or it is meaningless, if you truly support FD you will want this ToS enforced for the game's own good. Then i'll be behind you all the way on griefer prevention systems in the game, right now though, i can't. You strengthen a huge divide between PvP and non-PvP, and you'll get it. But let me tell you how it's going to work out, it's going to be a years long siege with neither side buckling, and it's sad, it's going to make the community fail to work together, and it's going to kill this game.