Many items at Jameson's. Never visited my wing's home system, its on the to do list.
Hung around various systems and allied with many factions there whilst ranking up my superpower allegiances, always nice surprise to drop into a system where everyone is friendly and allied.
Had some system on the west side of the bubble for dropping off explorer data, but forgot where that was now.
I bookmarked a station that had my real name, must do some missions there sometime.
ideas for you...
Hutton Orbital is a nice spot to have, you can dock your large ship near the orbital and transfer cargo with sub-orbitals I think.
Colonia is a short hop from sol, if you like to commute.
Merope and around there are nice safe areas to stock up on materials in the non-human signals.
There is a pretty station 3ls out from the main star in sag A*.
Andromeda is cool for a short holiday
If you like POIs, the anacondas graveyard is a good spot, there might be a planetary station nearby.
There is a system in the cone sector where 11,000 cmdrs wished to make a home, if you like company
Rent is cheap at the rift settlements, but true loners would pitch camp at hawkins gap as it's less visited.
the galmap shows damaged stations, these are really cheap to renovate.
If you want friendly cmdrs flying around for a chat try the CG stations in open, always some jolly fun going on
The culture in the starting systems in open is unique, friendly ramming of newbies is encouraged, so I believe
How about a home system in a prison ship, free bus service back home if you get into trouble!
There are some great little spots shown on planets with a +++ mark, these are easy to get to and and drive around to find the entrance, you could be the first to occupy them!
As for me my home system is Raxxla, great place, come find me!