I want to point out, that anyone that gets jumped by a clearly superior ship, is going to feel griefed when blown out of the sky, heck I am sure you are going to as well, again it comes down to the whole risk vs reward thing, and it seems you keep saying that the only ones that should have a risk is the traders, that does not make any sense, pirates should not have practically free reign of a highly trafficked and secured system, if they wanted this they should do missions in order to lower the security of said system.
But as it is right now, the system security vessels are laughable, except in conflict zones where they actually show up with bigger ships and high skilled npc's, yet for some reason they do not do this in the system?
Clearly something is wrong, and it will hopefully get fixed so that security of a system will be reflected in power of the system forces.
So my question is would you be upset if the system forces were able to make it difficult for you to stay in a high security system when you are a well known pirate with bounties and whatnot?
I have had Anacondas show up in response to assault while privateering and have never had any trouble taking care of them. To me AI is not generally a challenge, but I attribute some of that to my belief that I'm a pretty decent pilot (one death in PvP to date). I think that if AI was dialed up far enough to be "difficult" for me then pilots who already have trouble with the tougher AI might begin to feel like they're being cheated.
I sincerely believe I'm at the point where I'm a passable combat pilot if not pretty damn good. I would prefer there to be more challenge and strategy with catching prey, securing cargo, and then selling it, rather than just "make the npcs harder to kill." Right now the hardest part is finding a player who won't combat log or go down with the ship just to keep you from getting their 4 tons of algae; scooping and selling those 4 tons of algae is a cakewalk with random unpredictable pitfalls where if a security ship happens to look at you the whole thing is unavoidably bust.