Lots of good suggestions, but I haven't seen the one that would remove the biggest aggrevation for me. In the nav display, when I disable showing feet carriers in a system...leave MY carrier showing! I hate having to disable fleet carrier display so I can find stations, signal sources, or whatever, and then having to re-enable them to get back to mine, and then have to scroll through dozens of them to set course to mine.
Just that would be great, but even better if I can designate that friends' carriers should be shown as well as mine, even when suppressing the rest. I don't mind if this isn't selectable...just ALWAYS show my carrier and friends' carriers, whether I've disabled fleet carrier display or not.