I must say that's a pretty cool story and one you'll always remember.(some silly EvE Online memory)I remember a time in EvE when we rented (yes a darned renter corp!) a system out in the sticks, and as a PvE group we entertained the prospect of doing PI and enjoying the riches of what a NULL security system would provide.
One day, we have a visit from an unknown. No one knew who he was, or why he was there. He didn't ever reply to local, just sat there as a neutral, undetectable. Ofc he was most likely AFK and cloaked up somewhere. BUT what he did was make everyone nervous. On edge. Uneasy. No one knew what he was flying, what his intentions were, he could hotdrop a bunch of black-ops on us any time.. We were at his mercy. All operations ceased, he alone, and individually psychologically beat a PvE corp, and effectively stopped all production / activity from the system. One night after a couple of weeks.. whilst all nicely tucked up in bed they wrecked everything with a bunch of capitals..
Anyway, they beat us with EvE psychological war. We quit NULL, and quietly faded out once back in HIGH SEC. That was back in 2011. None of us have touched EvE since, it wasn't a rage quit, but rather a wake up call that EvE wasn't the game we wanted to play.
Whilst the threat in ED in OPEN may well be exaggerated somewhat, enough has been documented and made public that clarifies it does happen, and most likely will... I cannot help the flashbacks from EvE and the psychological havoc an afk cloaker can wreck; the possibility of something is equally as bad as the event itself. i.e. Some people may never fly, their fear of flying substantially overrides the very well known fact that flying is by far the safest way to travel (statistically).
So whilst someone who loves flying may well think someone with a flying fear is a bit..
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It's probable (not saying it is) that a chance of getting blown to smithereens isn't their game, or, isn't what they want from ED's galaxy. No one is wrong in this case.
I don't think FDEV making an OPEN PvE environment is a cop out at all, but rather adding a very much needed game mode.
The opportunity to really make lasting memories is a good thing. Life is all about the memories made along the way. I don't remember any NPC I kill, but I remember every CMDR I've killed and every time I've been killed by one. Why and what was happening all the way back to my Sidewinder days.