Like I said, if it's banter / a joke, no laws have been broken. It's also not stalking.
I get it, being a victim isn't something to be ashamed of in every social circle and lots of people are programmed to believe being a victim somehow enhances social credit, but a vocal minority doesn't make the majority, and just because the pack moves at the speed of the slowest and lamest wolf, doesn't mean that represents the average.
If someone contacted my work over elite I'd wee wee myself with laughter, and demand to write the reply from 'hr'