And yes, the WHY is very much important here. I have no problem if Fdev wants to make it available to people to fly their pride flag, again I welcome self expression.
Saying you welcome self expression as the opener then explaining why it shouldn't be allowed based on some miss truths is pretty hypocritical.
for clarity the flag does not denote your sexuality, and its not about "look at me"
And here's the paradox, because in game we have this kind of world, where this isn't an issue, where noone cares if you're black,pink, or purple, gay or not. Where you meet a person and sexuality is the last thing anyone thinks about - where you're judged outside of your physical being. Isn't bringing this kind of declaration about yourself (especially in this kind of game) simply out of place? Do people need to be proud of being gay everywhere (and vocal about it)?
well firstly its not a declaration, its a flag of principles, respect and equality, about being equals.... but yes it is necessary as clearly its not understood and people need to speak up and know they will be supported against any discrimination
- One in five LGBT people have experienced a hate crime or incident because of their sexual orientation and/or gender identity in the last 12 months
- Two in five trans people have experienced a hate crime or incident because of their gender identity in the last 12 months
- Four in five anti-LGBT hate crimes and incidents go unreported, with younger LGBT people particularly reluctant to go to the police
The flag represents a space where your voice will be heard, your welcome and discrimination wont be tolerated, you would be very naive to think this discrimination is only on the streets, its more frequent online as the culprit can hide behind their keyboard.
Thats why we have the social norm, to not really talk about that stuff. Anything equal must come with equal expectations.
The biggest problem is the fact no-ones talking about it, through open dialogue and discussion people can learn the struggles the community faces on a day to day basis, none of these statistics are "social norms".
- Three in 10 LGBT people (29 per cent) avoid certain streets because they do not feel safe there as an LGBT person
- More than a third of LGBT people (36 per cent) say they don’t feel comfortable walking down the street while holding their partner's hand. This increases to three in five gay men (58 per cent)
- Eight in 10 LGBT people (80 per cent) lie about their sexuality to avoid discrimination in the online gaming community
The last statistic is why i feel its hugely important to have flags in games, people should be free to be themselves without fear of discrimination.
They do not have sexual lifestyle connotations attached to them as their main promotion.
Lifestyle... a lifestyle implies you have a choice, if you used the same wording to describe race rather than sexuality that would not be acceptable at all, and rightly so, but it also does not make it right to describe sexuality as a 'lifestyle' as it certainly inst a choice which the word lifestyle very much implies.
this is exactly why i feel its important, and these items need addressing, these small micro aggression's can have a big impact on peoples mental health, and if they were said in the workplace would all be grounds for a tribunal, it shouldn't be socially acceptable to degrade someones sexuality by describing it as a lifestyle and imply the flag promotes it.
Let people do what they like it's not effecting you.