Unrealistic?
You do understand you're playing a computer game?
You're not really flying a spaceship, you know that right?
I also own a copy of the Sun Tzu Art of War Book and have read it from cover to cover.
There isn't a section about PC gaming in it or about people who don't want to play with you.
There is a bit about knowing when you've been beaten and how to save face when you lose.
You may want to brush up on that section, as you're embarrassing yourself now.
The whole premise of this game is "consensual" interactions.
If you don't like the fact that others have to choose to let you interact with them, you picked the wrong game.
My T9, my Cutter, my Anaconda, my Beluga and my Corvette have full access to all of the game, no matter your opinion.
This is how it was designed.
You want a PvP environment where no one can avoid you get an Arena group together, or you can try;
https://www.epicgames.com/fortnite/en-US/battle-pass/season-4