From my perspective, the lack of underlying risk cheapens any skill or effort spent on mitigating it.
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I don't know if I can properly explain my situation ....
(I'm not saying it's right or good, I'm just describing my condition).
The thing is that when I read a fiction book (I read only what I am interested in, otherwise I quit) I am totally in the story. I imagine myself there.
So with games, I play only games that are interesting to me, and I am entirely in the game. If my ship is shot down, I worry as if it were my own ship. Yes I agree, if I didn't take the game seriously (I certainly wouldn't play such a game) I would evaluate the game as a set of dots on the screen and I wouldn't care.
Everyone has a different attitude towards games.
I remember when they were looking for the Guardian bases and put forward different theories I was so much immersed that I constantly forgot that it was a game ...
I even bought myself a joystick because if I press key 3 I can see my right hand on the joystick.
UPD. The game is completely lacking in teaching players the techniques of wielding combat against humans. Yes, I realize that you can't learn everything, but there should be some minimal basics of fighting against humans.
The difference between PvE and PvP is so big that the training in training in the game can not be considered at all.
If I'm preparing for a competition, I'm constantly practicing. If I want to drive a car I have to be trained.
As a result, we simply have a negative attitude to the open game in Elite, and this is normal for the current situation - what they gave is what they got.