There's 400,000,000,000 star systems. Even in the core systems, there are do many that finding other players can be tough. Why does it matter if some people choose not to play with others? I play in open and am on every day but in my area I've only seen two other commanders aside from my friends who I told "come to XXX XXXX, there's lots of targets and it's surrounded by federation systems so we can blast the authority ships and still be good with the empire."
I fail to see how someone else chooses to play matters to you. It really shouldn't.
I fail to see how someone else chooses to play matters to you. It really shouldn't.