I think you totally failed to understand what i wrote. I'm all for multiplayer and will meet up given the chance with other players. However, how SC is designed, it appears that that i won't be able to do much solo when i don't have the time/opportunity to group up.
Maybe that is ok as well, maybe then its just a case of SC isn't being designed for people like me, you know, people who just want to fly spaceships and have some fun.
Meanwhile, some multiplayer games like ED and NMS do cater to those who need to solo some of the time.
Almost everything right now in SC is solo stuff. Can't share missions and none of them are challenging enough to require multiple people. None of the multicrew ship stuff, outside of turrets (and those still kinda suck), is really there.
Trading - soloable
Mining - can only do solo
Starfarer - multicrew refueling - no multicrew functionality
Reclaimer - multicrew salvage - no multicrew functionality
If I am just trying to get some money, I will usually play by myself.
Right now the only things I can think of where you really want a group a people are Jump Town drug runs, and crime stat reduction at Kareah. And even those arent that big of a deal. You might get chased off of Jump Town, but if you want to trade there are plenty of other places to do it. Granted you won't make as much money.
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And I'm more skeptical then some of the true believers, but there are the plans for NPC crew etc. See how it works out, but you are supposed to hire little computer buddies/wing men.