Generally speaking, your ingame analysis have been firmly planted in logic and reason, whereas embracing gender fluidity seems like a fundamentally illogical position, for instance.
I don't find anything more or less illogical about embracing gender fluidity than I do about assigning gender at all.
While biological sex (which isn't exclusively binary itself...intersex conditions being far more common than most assume) certainly comes with a small number of virtual imperatives, and a whole slew of more vague tendencies, gender is a subjective social construct.
Most of my in-game analyses are based on more objective things. In similar real-world situations, such as the fastest way to disable or destroy a person, I'm equally objective. Gender doesn't enter into that either, unless I have cause to believe one's own subjective gender role has caused them to neglect combat experience or physical fitness to such an extent that I'd find it easier to destroy their central nervous system, or cause an incapacitating loss of blood pressure, than their physical size would indicate.