Round and around and around we go.
I posted in another thread, DB said that Elite Dangerous is not an MMOG so we can all relax.
I have never played EVE and very pleased about it. It seems incredibly dull.
This is a personal thing but I have something called a 'life' and games only feature in a tiny part of it.
Anything that requires that amount of commitment ain't gonna happen. Yes I did play the original Elite for hours on end - I was 13 years old. Looking at the ages that people admitted to - seems like I am in the largest demographic.
By the way, I checked out a review of EVE and fell about laughing...
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/videos/view/zero-punctuation/208-Eve-Online
Eve might be more suited to you than you think then. I doubt I spend as much as 20 minutes a week playing eve, but find it worthwhile.