There always is in any gaming community, surely you have noticed such?...then there is a serious breakdown in understanding.
One person sees an issue, another doesn't, it will ever be thus.
One player doesn't care about 'expert opinions' and spend their money as they choose, another player considers this unfair, for whatever reason they elect.
We'll never be in agreement on what P2W might be, in this game or any other, as it is the individual who elects to spend their money, again, for whatever reason they choose - if it bothers someone else, well, it isn't their problem, is it? (Which is precisely how I feel about buying anything for Arx in this game, my choice, tough if it bothers anyone else - I'm the person playing how I wish, which suits me just fine)
Other individuals may choose how they play, how much, if any, real money they spend, that is entirely their decision, isn't it?