Although its nice of you to offer the person in trouble help, but how is that the point? Someone who wants to mine/trade/explore and not be an ACE combat pilot, should be allowed to enjoy the game the way they want to enjoy, this forceful feeding of YOU MUST LEARN TO BE A GREAT COMBAT PILOT is plainly wrong.
I personally bought the game for the space combat aspect alone, I don't enjoy lugging goods from one system to the next, or shooting at rocks and having limpets collect etc, nor do I personally enjoy surface scanning, I would be very annoyed if I was FORCED to trade/explore just to be able to play the game.
To each their own, forcing everyone to be become good at combat is a very fascistic approach which is what most hardcore combat CMDRs are doing on this forum/thread, all for an extremely selfish reason too I might add, so that Frontier does not give in to all the non combatants pleas, so the ACEs can keep belittling the non combatants, if these piloting gods so want to test themselves, they could just run around without shields in 'open' and take on the other ACEs but nope, they could ask Frontier to make HAZ RES and HIGH INTENSITY COMBAT ZONEs to have the current engi modded super buffed AI for anyone who wishes to test how good they are, but no, they want non combatants to suffer, so they will keep worshipping their super buffed AI god, simply cos they enjoy others miseries.