That's the thing isn't it - we've all done the things that are being described as a grind, but rather than keeping doing them until we're sick to death of them and complaining about it as though it's our god-given right to get those top level mods we just do six rolls and are happy with that.
The complainers aren't happy with that, they feel they deserve to have more - doubly so if they've hated what they've chosen to do - but it's little different to me deciding that instead of walking down the road to the chemist I'm going to walk to a chemist three towns away in the rain then demanding a discount and better products because I've walked so far.
But nobody offered that in the first place. It's just another chemists.
Well, we play games for different reasons. And differently designed games tend to serve different ways to playing them differently.
There are games who are full of 'achievement' hits. They are mostly fast paced, short sessions, giving nice upgrades. Everspace - while still having very Rogue like feel - you will die a lot - it gives out upgrades like candies. It provide small hits of success.
I enjoy Everyspace immensely. But I rarely remember experience of it. It just feels 'fast food' for me.
Elite Dangerous is designed for journey. I am tired saying that and I will get automatic replies about not making people playing my way but...
I am not trying. I am EXPLAINING why they struggle. It is quite basic really. There's no devil plan to make game grindy because of pay to win, or because it is tin of content (you might still see ED thin on content not related on 'grind gameplay').
It is about journey. If you obsessed over meta, over PvP, over getting max gear because that's how I think...yeah, ED won't work for you well. It is simply as fact. No one argues it.
What I am argue there's a way to play ED to enjoy it.
Whatever they take upon that or not or even try such approach is really their own personal choice.
You keep coming up with replies which undermine your argument.
If somebody who drinks beer is critical of something beer related then you coming along and saying "Hey! This wouldn't be a problem if you didn't drink beer" is, to be polite, "unhelpful".
There is no argument. You do something that hurts you, you said it yourself. I don't do that. That's why I don't understand you. It is simple as that.
Issue is that you don't know other way how to do that.