Gotta say I agree with that. There is also (to a lesser extent) the simple fact that I'm not a worthy enough player in the eyes of some PvP'ers, I'm not 'one of them'. Frenotx has better standing than me so their threads attract more respect but then those threads deteriorate more quickly than mine (in general) so it's a double-edged sword.
Mostly I'd just like people to stop complaining in both directions & just get on with either playing the game as-is or supporting changes that are actually achievable.
Amongst all of this there is no feedback whatsoever from FDev. No matter who shouts loudest or makes the most sensible case for their argument none of us really have any clue what FDev actually think is good, or practical. So nobody wins