Oh and when do you (or anyone at Frontier) think i might want to start playing the most expensive game i've bought?
It's way less buggy than (even fully patched) FFE was, in terms of serious bugs you're likely to come across in routine play [1]. So I think the answer in your case is "the game will never live up to your expectations, go and do something else". Personally, I'd recommend you actually try playing it first before you give up on it for good, just on the off-chance that you like it anyway, though.
That's not to say that there aren't some serious issues now with the BGS - there is definitely a problem with how some actions are counted in certain unclear circumstances. But:
- there are fewer than there were on 3.3 release - there were some issues in December and early January which have now been sorted
- unless you're specifically trying to play the BGS as a strategic sub-game, you won't meaningfully be affected by any of them
- even then you might get lucky for quite a while
[1] To take a different example: there are currently 1366 Firefox bugs open just on its "tabbed browsing" feature, and 605 to do with the "address bar". I've used Firefox for years and never experienced any noticeable bugs to do with either. Chromium has 59601 total open bugs, so it's not just Firefox - all web browsers are completely bug-ridden and no-one should be wasting their time trying to browse the web until they shape up.