The intent of the speed limit is obvious: to punish players for destroying ships in a station's no-fire zone by ramming them at high speed, either deliberately or through negligence. It's clearly not to punish players for being deliberately rammed. The fact that FDev created an exemption for the Docking Computer (allowing speeding when you're not trying to ram anyone because you're not actually in control) is evidence of this. But the bottom-feeders / cheating scumbags found a workaround that remains unplugged.
"Not making you wanted for destroying a ship while the offender is speeding" would not be sufficient, as the station-rammer in a weakened ship can still be destroyed while not exceeding the speed limit himself. It's also been claimed that even if the station-rammer survives and the other player gets a fine, he can then escalate this to a murder charge by subsequently ramming the station.
There is a real-world analogy, insurance scammers who swerve in front of your car and then brake heavily. In a crash where one motorist drives into the back of the car in front, the rearmost motorist is usually liable for failing to allow sufficient space to stop. The scammer is trying to exploit this.
In both cases, the perpetrators deserve whatever insults people choose to label them with. I don't have a problem with that.