Don't be an.... rediculous. I said hundreds to thousands. Not hundreds of thousands. There is a difference. Learn it.
The player numbers are because the game still is in very slow development (much complaining about this) and the fact that there is still no progression yet to keep people interesting in playing long term. So if you are going to use Steam player counts to make your case Agony Aunt (oh the irony... how many times I have seen you condemn others for using Steam player counts to make a case contrary to your white knight positions) at least be honest about it.
I know that you know this because we sparred on IB's forums together (I was under a different user name at the time). So stop playing the devil's advocate (to put it nicely).
Besides, we are talking about their amazing netcode. You are better than this Agony.
I understood quite well what you said. Hundreds to thousands. ED can do a hundred under the right circumstances. Is that enough? Well, depends. For me, who is usually the only player in an instance, occsaionally a few others, then yes. But there again, i play GTA in solo lobbies or with just friends, because open sessions are pure toxic environments.
As an aside, Rockstar have just make GTA free to play via Epic. I dropped into a public sesssion today. First message i see "I killed you because you are a free to pay Epic player". Yeah, thanks, but no thanks. I don't need those sorts of players, and make no mistake, those players exist in ED.
Regarding Steam numbers, all you have to do is read back and pay attention to my comment about how I was not entirely happy about posting Steam stats, but with the lack of other information i had to go with them. And, as you rightly point out, it doesn't show the whole picture. But we can make some inferences from them, same as with ED. So when people say "only 5000 people playing ED" we know there are a lot more than that, at least double can be reasonably expected from those who purchased directly from FD and Occulus etc.
Now, take those Steam numbers and double, nay triple or quadruple them, hell, multiply them by 10x, and it still paints a very sorry picture, one that means its highly unlikely that that thousands of players in a single session is rarely, if at all, tested.
I did a search for someonse streaming thousands of players in a session, and couldn't find any. Maybe they exist, and if so, i'd love to see such a video, and check out the quality of it, see if there is lag/jitter or not. If you have such a video, please, do post!
I have no idea what you mean about us sparring on IB's forums. I've never been on IBs forums. You must be confusing me with someone else.
As for talk about their amazing netcode, well, indeed, but i've still got to see proof that their amazing netcode is anything more than talk, and talk is cheap.