It's also been said in this thread that a clear flaw in the design is the attempt to make co-op PvE and free PvP work together in the same mode. I think that's because of what I'll just call now the "missing mode". If that were solved I think we'd have a pretty solid game design.
This is my point, and the one that
@Mohrgan didn't quite pick up on in the post they replied to (which, fair enough, I didn't elaborate and left a lot to interpretation as consequence).
Pushing PVE co-op -seeking players into the same game mode as PVP -seeking players will inevitably lead to conflict, with the PVE players wanting to be left alone to do their co-op or at least "parallel play" mostly-solo stuff, and the PVP players wanting to PVP. With no easy or reliable means of identification, no PVP or PVE -only zones, etc., the bitter acrimony we see throughout this thread, forum and elsewhere around Open mode is the result.
This is only exacerbated - and heavily so - by the introduction of engineering. Something which someone else pointed out just above is basically optional for most of the game's PVE content. Not so at all with PVP, unless you find people who agree to terms, as it were, beforehand. Meaning you can't rely on it at all for "organic PVP", where the only sane move is to fly the most heavily outfitted ship you can manage. Which requires heavy engineering. Which turns a lot of people off. And so on.
These are in fact flaws that have demonstrable negative impacts on the playerbase. This forum and this thread contain ample evidence of same.
I mean, trust me... as a ganker, it's the easiest thing in the world to just tell people to "go to Solo or PG if you don't want PVP" or "add me to your block list," but the bigger point - is why should either I or they have to do that? Why not just have a mode that lets them pre-tailor the experience in the first place?
I do agree there are a lot of accommodations, so is the solution to tell people some version of "git gud" - i.e. learn about and use the tools to make Elite be what you want it to be?
I mean, until and unless something is changed, that's the only real answer, so I guess so.