What I do take issue with is being killed in 1 second flat in a Clipper. Literally I barely had a moment to even mentally register that I was being fired on. I can't see how this is even remotely fun for anyone. I can only assume there must be some sort of point scoring for this either that or people simply enjoy stepping on bugs... a bit like a small child.
Was it really one second, or did it just seem like it?
I remember the first time I got ganked in my Cobra Mk III, and I was shocked at how quickly I blew up. I'd not experienced anything remotely like it in the game to that point, not even that one time I accidentally went on a threat level 7 mission in my un-engineered, mostly stock Eagle.
But - my actual intent in starting this thread was not necessarily to swap stories about getting ganked, but rather to try to understand what people who explicitly
do not want PVP are hoping to find in Open mode. We've had some great responses talking about the various types of peaceful (or at least "not PVP") types of experiences folks have had, and as a new player, it helped really open my eyes to a side of the game I'd completely glossed over in my single-minded pursuit of getting involved in PVP.
A small update on that - for the past couple weeks, my focus has really been much more on seeking out as much PVP as I can possibly find, and a lot less on ganking. In fact, if anything I've mainly been on the receiving end of some pretty intense 1 vs many encounters with much more experienced PVPers. Within the PVP community Discords, there has even been talk of creating a "D'anq Any % Speedrun" category... currently the Nomads are the record holders, but there have been some strong showings from other squadrons, too.
So I'm very much finding what I set out to look for. My FDL is finally g5ed in the most important areas, and I'm slowly developing PVP skills. It's still very much my focus and passion, and I'm loving the Elite flight model so much. And I'd say our ganking activities have taken on an even more wholesome approach, with multiple CMDRs over the past weeks having accepted the friend requests, and even joined our impromptu organic gank squads. We've really been having a lot of organic fun, of the variety that ironically seems a lot like what the PVE-seeking co-op players described as searching for in Open. So who knows? The adventure continues.