I do think this thread has been thought provoking, for me at least, probably not others who are more used to the "merry go round" of the subject.
There does seem to be, at this stage, pretty broad consensus on a few things:
- Open mode allows people to act with and upon one another (I like that phrasing @Riverside ), it's all within the rules. Meaning, for example, that both ganking and menu logging are "acceptable," if unpalatable, actions within the confines of the game's rules.
- Playing within the rules (i.e. not hacking, cheating, or otherwise breaking EULA and TOS) is not the same thing as "being nice" or "honorable" or whatever. Just because you're doing something that's allowed and/or possible within the rules, doesn't mean that some players won't consider you an absolute jerk while doing so.
- For any and every conceivable reason, some people don't mind playing as jerks, though they sometimes get sensitive if the jerkiness of their behavior is pointed out. They will refer back to #1, to which their accuser respond by pointing out #2. Controversy and hurt feelings ensue on both sides.
- Remedies exist to contain the impact of behaviors you dislike for whatever reason. They include playing in Solo or PG as well as adding users to your block list. You can also try using Local and/or System chat to air your grievances, but the only guaranteed results come from using the provided remedies (and excessively salty messages in chat may provoke derision from the jerks).
I
think that's pretty much a common ground around the topic, or at least, that's which direction the wind seems to be blowing at the moment.