See the thing is about a computer game is, it isn't a job where I have to learn new skills - it's a game, a distraction from real life.
When you've spent a shift watching a 17yr old die on the side of a road because of some idiot reckless driving, or help an Ambulance crew patch up a victim of domestic violence then get your boss chew you out because you're not fast enough with the paperwork or because you parked in the wrong parking bay that morning;
Then you don't really feel like coming home to be forced into learning new skills.
You want to meta the game, fine you go for it. But regular people use games to relax and unwind after very long, stressful days. We don't want or need you or anyone else telling us how we spend our free time.
I could almost hear the violin solo you had in your head as you typed that.