Every game has a certain amount of grind. It's the gameloop. Every game has it.
You said it yourself: "Games are about the journey".
Well Elite is just that. Accept that the journey here doesn't lead to the same goal for every player. Which is what makes it a great sandbox in my opinion.
You know the funny thing? A fantastic game like Skyrim arguably forces you to grind more than Elite does. Because it's a game where the endgoal is to finish the story by defeating the final dragon. You might fool around, delay it as long as you can, download addons that keep you busy, but it is a game that forces you toward a certain outcome.
And that is fine. It's still one of the best games ever in my opinion, but Elite is very much not that.
In Elite you just do whatever the hell you feel like doing. Finish arbitrary goals you set for yourself. And for the life of me, I can't imagine why you would want to use trainers to reach those goals.
I agree - every game has a game loop. Some game loops are fun, chasing USS for some mats are not fun. No matter how you twist and turn it.
In Skyrim, if you need something, you can either buy it or you can forage for it. Hunting for wolves or looking for Iron is actually interesting. You want to go to a mine - have fast travel! The game doesn't force you walk there for 30 minutes.
Don't want to use fast travel? Use a coach! Inbuilt in game, and you can travel to the 4 corners of Skyrim for a modest sum. You are not forced to walk. Whereas Elite DOES force us to do repetitive tasks like jump/honk/scoop (you can skip the honk if you want) if you want to go to Colonia for several hours.
You could argue saying "But it's an MMO and Skyrim is single player". I play in Solo, always have been and always will be. What I do has no major impact on the BGS anyway. So why can't i get a fast travel to Colonia? Been there before, counts as a "discovered location".
And the 90 minutes of "ride to hutton": There is NOTHING about that journey. That's 90 minutes of "I'm going to watch a movie". That's no journey, nor is it experience.
I'm not asking for instant gratification, but seriously, cut the wasting of time.
Instant jump to a station? Go there once, then you can jump in there.
Been to colonia before? Have a Megaship take you there. Or you can hire a big jump ship to take you to places you've been before.
I don't agree with cheating, but some of them, like unlimited FSD range or instant drop to a station does sound like a massive time saver. Especially if you play in Solo only.
Also, to resume the Skyrim analogy: Skyrim has an endgame. Dragons get bigger and stronger, drop better gear. Elite does not have an endgame. Anything you can do in an Anaconda, you can do in a Sidewinder. (Blah blah Beagle point, I know). I was talking in terms of "achieving ranks" or making money. It just takes you longer.