I don't think you should hope for Frontier doing something about it, that seems a recipe for disappointment.
On the other hand chances of running into a ganker is really minimal except for in a handful of systems. Playing in open does add a little spice just due to the risk of getting deleted. Maybe you can roleplay them as friends of an NPC that you've killed in the past extracting justice for your past actions?
You’ll note in the last line of my post that I have no hope of FDev getting it right.
As to rationalizing griefing behavior and embracing some perverse form of Stockholm Syndrome, no thank you. It is an entirely one-sided transaction and there is
zero benefit to me. I don’t get the thrill of danger as I would in a Thargoid encounter or smuggling run, I don’t get the amusement of a pirate player’s creativity in mugging me unless I tell them a joke or contribute some biowaste to their kid’s college fund, I am only
assured that whatever I was doing is going to be interrupted, frustrating and costing
me time and credits
for absolutely nothing in return.
You may as well suggest that I take a load of trade missions, make 17 jumps and go attack a Titan in a shieldless, weaponless Anaconda over and over, losing the cargo and failing the missions. You know what? That would actually be preferable because while it would still be a massive waste of my time, faction rep, and credits, at least I would be seeing some pretty graphics and cool alien ships.
It boggles my mind that the victim-blaming and “have you tried just laying back and letting it happen? Maybe pretend you’re being murdered by [INSERT HOT CELEBRITY]. You might even enjoy it!” crap is so pervasive. There is nothing fun about it. There never will be.
You are correct that the risk of a griefing outside certain systems is overstated, but it’s not zero; I’m based in Shin and visit engineers pretty often. The risk to me is having MY recreation time ruined by some jackhole who gets 30 seconds of fun at my expense, while my night is likely ruined because what I was enjoying and doing to relax has now angered and frustrated me to the point that I just log out. I have enough jackasses and stress to deal with in real life - I’m not willing to be someone else’s “content.”
All of this is academic. I’m not flying in Open except for some special situations and I most likely never will. I encourage everyone else who doesn’t enjoy being trolled by some random internet jackhole to do the same. FDev has provided the official mechanism to do so.
In fact, my number one suggestion to “fix” this (since
actual improvements won’t happen) would be to change the order of modes on the login screen to Solo, Private Group, Open.
If FDev can’t or won’t deal with griefing, as nearly every other MMO at least pays lip service to trying to do, then Solo should be the default.