And this whole debacle is why those of us who can't be griefed don't mix up in-game and RL, as then the game becomes a way of getting to you.
Hopefully Frontier will learn a lesson here: all the out-of-universe events, all the memorials to deceased relatives, the charity streams, all those feel-good doodahs, in a game which allows a degree of adversarial play, will come bite you in the back when someone in need of attention exploits the breach in the 4th wall you have created yourself. And at this point, either you betray what your game is about and simply god-mode things in the way you want them to happen with no disruption possible, or things will get nasty and personal as they are bound to when real people are involved.