I totally agree with your issue with telepresence, i share it too. imo it was a shortcut which FD introduced which was done by someone who really is not that concerned about breaking the 4th wall or verisimilitude.... I get it, and also get why it does not bother some people but for me it was a massive blunder.How will space legs handle death?. I hope FDev don't go down the "telepresence" route, please no. The two things that would DOA space legs for me would be, that silly "telepresenec" thing & 3rd person view.
Far better to have introduced ship npcs at the same time - even if all they did was sit on your ship looking pretty with no other function yet other than be needed to fly multicrew ships
and then when people do multicrew for that session they are that character. Any credits earned could just be added to our actual CMDR account but with no in game reason why (there are ways i personally would far prefer it to be done but this would mean more work)
telepresence is something which is not needed for multicrew with just a small amount of work, and besides it has already been decided for the SLFs that telepresence only has a range of.... is it 3km? (SLFs need telepresence as they are throw away drones and not manned ships - tho it would seem with human pilot functionality if needed) One would have to be a nutcase to put their actual meat suit in an SLF however when in combat.. (actually manning an SLF when looking for stuff on a planet surface however, when in tandem with a mate in an SRV on the ground.... now THAT could be cool bit i am going OT now).