Treating other people purely as content, rather than as people, seems a bit misanthropic. I'd argue the point is to play
with other people - experiencing content together.
Treating people as just content equivalent to an NPC or a star, or station, or anything else non-actual-human may lead to just getting blocked, and suffering the janky instancing forever after.
I treat their characters as content and I am playing
with them when they yank my character out of SC and dive on him with six ships, or whatever.
To accuse them of trying to harm me, the player, because they are using their characters against mine seems more than a bit misanthropic and paranoid to me.
For example, I can't imagine that @
Gwydion [RoA] here has been personally wronged by me, or that he's ever wronged me, but I'm pretty sure our CMDRs have shot at each other before, and that it hasn't always been in symmetric encounters (I seem to recall my CMDR's shieldless FAS being taken apart by about fifteen railguns spread over at least four ships that dropped into a low wake of his).
Likewise, I don't believe for one second that
@TiberiusDuval gives a damn about any other player, based on his statements in this thread.
That's all beside the point though. What players think of eachother shouldn't have anything to do with what the game allows to happen between their characters.