I play in open not because I actively seek PvP but I absolutely accept it when it happens (it's happened twice now, survived each encounter) and it's fun. If you don't ever want PvP what is the advantage of Open mode? If you want to fly around with friends, surely it's better to create or join a private group, and if you are a loner, then Solo?
This is a game, and I wouldn't think of pulling the plug during a fight, what a way to spoil the fun, not just of the other player but yourself too. If you are taking it so seriously that getting killed in game feels like a negative event, then, dare I say it, you are playing with the wrong mindset. Elite is about fighting, not just trading. Obviously if the same commander targets you again and again that IS griefing, and that is a different matter - report them & switch to solo for a while and relocate.
This is a game, and I wouldn't think of pulling the plug during a fight, what a way to spoil the fun, not just of the other player but yourself too. If you are taking it so seriously that getting killed in game feels like a negative event, then, dare I say it, you are playing with the wrong mindset. Elite is about fighting, not just trading. Obviously if the same commander targets you again and again that IS griefing, and that is a different matter - report them & switch to solo for a while and relocate.