No, I'm saying respect work both way and if you don't respect your community don't expect them to respect you in return. Respect is earned, period.
Also some of the context in the first paragraph may be confusing for some players here. I was talking about one of their community manager who I shall not name disrespecting members of the CODE before a livestream. I just think it's funny to see a dev post on the forums and try to educate us on "respect & rules" when their own moderators & devs don't abide and/or break these very own rules.
I just think it's an amusing coincidance considering we have 52 pages of bashing on PVP players.
I am unsure what you think is respect.
Because it seems like the reddit thread post indicates, that you seem to see 'not' show people respect as default, and if you do not show people respect then I do not see how it is surprising that they do not show you respect either?
Last I checked if it is the post I think it is, said comment by dev was well appropriate to the situation, the problem again being that your 'default' setting apparently 'not' showing people respect, then saying respect is earned?
To me, the default setting I treat people with is show polite respect, by default I am open and generally polite towards people, because I have no reason not to.
Course if your idea of respect is being open and polite to people, then that might be the issue.
To me respect is when you do 'more' then what is consider normal open and general polite behaviour, you go out of your way to do something for people because you believe they deserve it, what, naturally is depending on culture.
Disrespect is what you show when people have taken your normal behaviour and disrespected it, in one way or another. But this can at least on surface seem the 'normal' behaviour online sometimes? Treating people not as people, but instead treating them as just some thing in your way, something preventing you from doing what you want?
I've played games where I've been good, evil, whatever, and evil when I was playing a person that objectively was pure evil murdering and causing chaos, it never became a problem, in fact i was often contacted outside the game or via other channels being praised for it, for being a scary , but despite that it had been a great experience even for my victims.
Now, some may say, "But I don't want to role play", to which I have to say, the moment you assume a role that you are not irl, you are role playing, to what degree is entirely up to you, but you are. If you claim you are not role playing, you are basically saying "hey what I am doing right now is not motivated by wanting to do something in game, but rather because I just felt like being a jerk today and am taking it out in a situation where there are no consequences."
In which case, how is it a surprise people react as they do?
Frontier has some of the best support and dev communication I've seen through all the games I've played. They are friendly, helpful and very lenient, but here's the thing, unlike how I've seen other devs/supports, they are only lenient to a point, where others have been so lenient they allow people do keep doing stuff that is harming the community as a whole, and that is in my book being both unfriendly and unhelpful to the rest of the community.