More like, "it's not what you say, but the way you go about saying it" is how you go about getting infractions. If your post content is snide, disrespectful, rude, harassing, etc, you're going to get the wrath of the moderation team - no matter if you're a PVP'er or PVE'er or even a RP'er. There are moderators on these forums that PVP, and PVE - contrary to popular statements posted out there!
+1. And management at that. Let me be blunt about my playstyle.
I pvp. I RP FED officer with loose morals (credits are all that matter, and the end of slavery; filthy imperials

). I do not need a reason to attack a player in open nor will i ever give one if they demand it out me. I will attack transports that are not winters or hudsonites. Even better are unaligned CMDRS, cause no one likes neatral people ( an RP statement, any Anarchy Online vets out there

). I will not however rub it in someones face, telling them to git gud. I will not kill the same person twice if they are weaker/unshielded/not as skilled/unwilling etc.. I will not purposefully stalk someone to be a continuel nuiscense to them. I will not haress intentionally. I play in accordance with whats capable of being done. (Open PvP-creed nomination plz)
I will also not stand by any longer as a silent participant and be compared to and pro-sexual assault advocates. Uncalled for. If you are a PvPer who does harass people by continuelly being a thorn in their side (repeated daily killings), then this is what I would constitute as griefing and must be addressed and reported. If the same person is killing you over and over again in the span of an hour and negating your way of fun then please report him/her. Take screens. But do not compare that guy to me and my fellow pvpers. You want us to respect your style? Please respect my style and lets regulate abuse. More discussion needed.
Griefing is very serious issue, a very REAL issue. But as some has stated before, this game was and is marketed to fly in a cutthroat, anarchy thriving galaxy, to do what it is I wish. To make my riches by my own means and to carve out my own infamy or fame. I wish to hunt commanders for my own personal gain with or without reason.
I am given the option to attack other pilots at will without justification. Im going to take that option as it fits my characters agenda. Its nothing personal; untill I'm compared to real world low lifes and/or a child because appearently a man with a wife, dog, and a 56-hour work week could not possibly play any other way.
my way of play is being threatened by an increase in 'i attacked you unprovoked so i must be a griefer'. We as a community, pvpers and pve'ers alike, need to get together and push Frontier for better in game accountability. I loved when open play was filled with pirates, traders, and naval pilots. #ReportGriefers!