How am I objectively wrong? If you prefer to play in VR or on the monitor is an entirely subjective opinion. Objectively one isn't better than the other. I understand why people like to play Elite in VR, but personally I just don't like it.
Objectively it's easier to drink beer, smoke, eat something and talk to your wife (OK, that's probably not a good point) without VR. There are even people who can't play in VR because they get sick or miss the whole experience because of bad eye sight. Graphical quality is generally worse.
Saying that playing in VR is the only proper way of playing is obviously wrong.
However, I sympathise with everyone who enjoys it and I fully support everyone who tries to convince FDEV to add VR support in Odyssey.
What you prefer is subjective - sure, Your preference mattering is not. The statement was that vr sucks, not that you suck at experiencing VR or were using sucky VR equipment, which would be true. Elite's VR is objectively a very good implementation of VR within the confines of the genre the game is in. The vast number of people who have experienced it agree. The statement that VR sucks in elite is as subjective as saying that the definition of subjective is subjective because language is a living thing.
You categorically will not experience the game as it was meant without VR. It simply cannot be done. You cannot get the scale or scope of what's been created from a monitor. Nobody is saying monitor gameplay isn't great ... most people who play vr dont play it that way all the time and it obviously is not even available in many games etc.. But you are definitely missing part of the created experience that you can't get any other way and it's worth seeing.
Not sure what you think i'm saying here regarding people who can't play vr or choose not to. They're missing out is all. They may not realize it ...they may not care. But they're definitely missing out. And that sucks for them if they would want to but can't manage. Color blind people miss out of certain things too by being color blind. Deaf people miss out of stuff by not being able to hear it. Doesn't change the fact that something is better seeing it in full color, hearing it as it was meant to be heard.
I'm not saying it's the only proper way to play, i'm saying it's the only way to experience the full game. A monitor is like playing it thru a filter.
The idea that fdev can create an armstrong moment thru a monitor is laughable. It can't hope to capture what the phrase even means.