EDIT - my reply reads a bit more combative than what was in my head. Your response to Alec in your back and forth seems decent and fair, so I'm not trying to fight for fighting sake, just making some points.
I appreciate that you are not intending to be combative but I must say when reading through the body of your response I am a bit confused. You are quoting things I said but seem to be making responses based on some other conversation and not the one you were quoting from so I am not quite sure how to respond. Your response content is reasonable on its own I guess but not really in the context of the conversation you quoted it from.
The one thing I can directly respond to is this as it does make sense in the context of the discussion:
It's not weird at all.It's kinda a weird assumption to make that one must own Odyssey in order to say they prefer Horizons. I get that some people do (especially Kickstarters who get all the DLC free), but why would I waste my money on something I'm not going to play if I already know I'm going to prefer Horizons instead? I've done my research.
Let' say my old man buys a new Hyundai EV. I go look it up and do some research on it; read heaps of articles, watch a ton of videos. I educate myself on the matter. I come to the conclusion it's a bad car based on my research and tell him as much. He responds by saying it's a great car and the articles don't do the feel of it justice and despite it not being as performant as the new Tesla vehicles it is dream to drive and has reignited his passion for driving.
Who's opinion matters the most? My opinion with my second hand 'knowledge' or my Dad's with his first hand experience?
If you want to stay with Horizon's then do so and I agree it would be nice if teaming up were possible across the two versions for as long as there are two (I would of thought though if it were technically possible they would have done it. As you pointed out they did it before so there must be something that is a blocker).
All in all it's clear we are both opinionated individuals with some different opinions so I guess we are likely to trigger each other from time to time. I can live with that; I would imagine you can too? Hopefully the poor souls ill fated to read our drivle can glean something of value from it