There's really nothing here I can, or want, to take issue with here. In fact, speaking from my perspective it's mildly irritating to be consider 'just a PvPer.' Sure, I suppose there are good reasons for that and I don't mind it per se, but I enjoy so much of this game besides just shooting at or fighting other players.
Are we finding more understanding between each other on these boards lately? I hope so. I really do.
The term "PvPer"- is not meant as a
slight, it's meant to demonstrate a difference by way of participation. Not everyone plays to
compete with other players.
PvErs are definitive in that they don't seek to engage other players. At all. Not by "chance", not by "choice". Those who do, aren't viewed as PvErs simply based on that definition. In this game- I consider myself a PvEer in the sense that I don't seek to engage other players in any hostility whatsoever (whether for self-defense or not). The moment I do, then I'm no longer a "PvEer" but engaging in PvP. There's a bit of connotation involved, yes- but there really IS a definitive difference in actions. Players engaging in hostile actions toward each other do change the inherent nature of the setting, but it's not necessarily in the form of non-predictive action- as games themselves seek to challenge players on many varying levels.
I do think, however- that subjectively there is a definitive difference in whether there's a "superiority complex" attached to one's own beliefs. When some come across as "superior" to other players because of the activities they engage in- I tend to view it hilariously as the difference between an Astrophysicist and a specialized soldier. Both are good at what they do- but they're completely different applications. Either of them viewing each other as "inferior" is a complete fallacy. (or "phallusy", if you prefer) Both should be respected for their own achievement and ability... but neither should seek to subordinate/subjugate the other.
PvErs don't tend to want to subordinate/subjugate anyone. I've yet to see one that does. There's just no need for (or room for) "tribalism" in PvE.
That... is what I view as quite the definitive difference between the two styles of play. Sure you may consider yourself "buddies" with another PvPer... but at the end of the day,
you're still competing with each other. One has to be "better" than the other.
Yes, we do tend to understand each other on a great many things. Even the ones we may not agree on.
