I am *not* amazing. Nor do I believe I am. In fact I am pretty crap as a pilot, so the fact these things never happened to me prove they are easy enough to avoid. Still doesn't alter the fact that a notoriety that disappears in an hour is pointless, especially when you can go to another jurisdiction, swap to a new ship, & proceed for an hour until that notoriety disappears like vapour.
Then hold off going into a RES. I didn't touch a RES until after a full month into the game. No, they won't be banished from their system, as they can hop into a clean ship where their notoriety will have little to no impact on them.
Again, good for you. You know fully well many, many people do have such issues. Either accommodate them or be honest and just say:"I dont care about other people, I want to have fun no matter what that means for others." This daft notion that new players should just avoid RES and that new players should 'just buy a new ship' when they make a mistake is lame as heck.
And honestly, if you want FD to actually take note of anything you may want to come up with suggestions that include the community at large, beyond saying:"they they should just git gud lol screw them." It may be reasonable to you, but it is unlikely to happen because FD doesnt just cater to people like us.