Not so much complaining about their experience in open, just complaining that other players are not behaving in a manner they wish, it appears.
I'd prefer to blow someone up with only 10% hull remaining, rather than have to knock off 4,000 points before "ship go boom!", which the OP considers ill-mannered...
And you know why I do? Because you people don't understand the difference between ganking and PvP. You run back to your mommy with your tail between your legs when an actual PvPer challenges you. You also don't understand the difference between ganking and piracy. Piracy is noble, ganking is not. From a meta-perspective, ganking just doesn't make for good game play. Have I done it in the past? Sure I have. But it left me empty. So if you have a soul in your body, heed my words.