Why are the forums so toxic? Some types of games attract more socially awkward alpha wannabes than others.
^^ this is
THE quintessential representation of toxicity from the armchairm psychologist whom has no real life experience of
why to base it on, and I'm certain he's not even trying to be ironic judging by his other posts - I cannot even find a word to decribe how gargantuan the irony is.
I've been toxic, sure, I was VERY vocal regarding many matters when the game was being developed; earned myself a ban more than once. The people who are vocal (and whom write a post more than 2 lines long) are the ones who actually care enough to take the time to post. For my own reasons, if you look at my sig, I have yet to play the game despite being a KS supporter, with a box set STILL unopened. I'm waiting until I see the game I was promised, and I'm determined to keep pushing Fdev and DB to deliver that promise, which in all liklihood will be another 3-4 years. Am I a socially awkward alpha wannabe? Hardly, but you only have my word on that, yet my list of life accomplishments after a very hard childhood is long and varied.... I'm not an alpha wannabee - I'm a wannadid, and there are lots of the "vocal" type people the same, it's easy to read a persons character from how they write, you read enough posts and you learn who they are.
The toxicity the OP mentioned comes from the 2 line post people, all mouth, no content. (sounds familiar *wink*)
Consider the opposite to a forum that decry's the dev's though - a forum where everyone is always praising the community and the developers regardless of what they do:
- Perma Greifing new players "GREAT!! this gives me an opportunity to learn how to take it on the chin and not get mad when I lose my last 3 hours playtime progress, over and over and over and over and over, this IS ELite Dangerous after all !!*happy smiling shiny face*"
- Spending weeks to get all the right Engineer mods only to have the NPC's have BETTER mods for insta PC kills "
Amazing !!!! - I'm SOOOOO happy that I took all that time travelling around, seeing new places and generally grinding my butt off to get these now utterly useless mods that I cannot even store - THANKS Fdev!"
- Unkillable NPC's "Wow Fdev! What a genius stroke to make quest bounty NPC's unkillable! What a great 30 minute fight that was that I had absolutely zero chance of winning. I soo enjoyed spending two hours chasing that bounty NPC halfway across the system only to learn he's got infinite shield boosters and ammunition, and has now cost me half my total wealth in insurance buyout - that gives me more excuse to grind more moniez! SWEEET!"
- Commanders combat logging - (the black hole of PvP, condoned by Fdev by way of how they set up the P2P system, an exploit that will forever exist)
"Guys! I just had an AMAZING experience, the fight of my life!!! I was flying in SC when I got interdicted by a commander, I thought about just running but decided to give it my best because PvP is part of the game right? Now or Never. So we went at it like pro's, two commanders, testing the skill of the other. It was obvious I was outgunned from the start, but I hung in there using guile to match his power, I ran and hid in an asteroid field let my shields recoup and I went cold to find a place to ambush him.... and it worked! I totally had the drop and had his shields down before he knew where I was coming from, he was on the run after that and I just kept pounding him, manouvre after manouvre - my heart was racing, my hands were sweaty - I was flying as though I was hooked in to the ship herself, I almost couldn't beleive it; this would be my first PvP commander kill and a win for the little guys; his overconfidence would be his downfall and moved in for the final strike, all pips to guns and with just 5% hull, he just vanished before my eyes, not in an exploding ship, just vanished... he must have combat logged. I was ecstatic he had combat logged because he was such a good opponent he deserved to cheat, denying me my first hard fought kill, it gave me the reward I had so looked forward to. PvP IS AMAZING!!"
It just doesn't work does it? Even being nice, it comes across as sarcasm because people know these situations aren't good for the players.
The truth is Fdev
HAVE made some..... questionable...... game implementation and design choices - and have been extremely quiet about a LOT of aspects of the game that were promised and yet to materialize or aspects that BADLY need to be addressed.
Fact is, if people didn't say anything, Fdev wouldn't know they messed up and when people have aspects of the game they have sunk possibly 1,000's of hours into, break, - it's not surprising this shows in their "less than happy" posts.
Calm dialogue takes two parts and Fdev resolutely don't like to talk, so they get shouted at instead.