Unless I'm playing a game where PVP is explicitly part and parcel of its intended design?
I mean, we've been round and round about this.
Some folks simply cannon countenance the notion of any kind of PVP except mutually agreed upon engagements being "valid," but unfortunately, this is not something that FDev have chosen to build their game around.
Instead, we have a game where you can be engaged in PVP anywhere, anytime, for any or no reason, yadda yadda. We've all heard it before, I know.
So... within that context, how is offering the friend request somehow beyond the pale? In a game where random PVP can and does happen all the time, if that's "the game", how is it actually bad?
Maybe instead of fostering a culture of entitled outrage at the notion of PVP happening in the PVP mode of the game, we can try something different? Maybe we can accept that it's part of the fun of the game, and embrace it as such?
This is where I'm coming from. I already know plenty of people disagree, as is their right.