Curious if you would have defended Elite back when you were playing 30 hours per week (literally nearly a full time job) with arguments about how the mechanics were fine, learn to play, space is big, nothing is free, blah blah blah. Now that your no-lifer lifestyle has fallen by the way side you are beginning to see the problem.
I can dedicate maybe 6 hours per week, 10 if I want to waste time, to Elite. Recently decided to do some engineer work, learned I needed to travel 5,000 ly and grind mats, etc. Stared at a loading screen plus star jump over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again for over an hour. Recognized the terrible "gameplay" loop for what it was and logged off.
Elite is a cool game every now and then but it only does one thing perfectly, and that's waste your time if you're not careful.